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The condition for success is deliberate contrast

For example, pair matte wool trousers with a slightly sheen blazer (think the difference between printer paper and photo paper), but keep your shirt matte to maintain harmony

For undergarments, she uses nude pasties and cheeky black panties but said she would opt for a skirt slip for a more PG vibe if needed

What isnt acceptable is doing it out of turn

We've lost count of how many sequin dresses or fringed tops we've bought over the years, only to be worn once before making its way to the bottom of our wardrobes to be forgotten about until next year

Other great options could include oversized balloons, a vintage doll, or even a tiny, unsettling animal companion